there is indeed light at the end of the tunnel

Thank you Cindia

and all my friends in Manchester

the nominees are

Omega, Vivien, Catherine etc...

WELL

call me A master, the master, no matter it's A merit or A distinction

anyway, got da title finally

end of da story n happily ever after

PS:

whole new voyage n way 2 go

FIN

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Hitch: "You" is a very fluid concept right now.

Hitch: The key tonight is hang back. Give her plenty of space. If she lingers at a photograph, move on. But maintain the visual. 

Hitch: So how does it happen, great love? Nobody knows. But what I can tell you is that it happens in the blink of an eye. One moment, you're enjoying your life. And the next, you're wondering how you ever lived without them.

Boss: Spoken like a true cynic.  Sara: I'm not a cynic. I'm a realist. Boss: You are a realist masquerading as a cynic who is secretly an optimist.

Hitch: But always remember...Life is not the amount of breaths you take. It's the moments that take your breath away.

Boss: You are becoming a sick, workaholic lunatic, and this is exactly the kind of nervous, overwrought behavior.

Hitch: Some guys naturally develop a comfort with the opposite sex. They like women, women like them. Everything flows naturally. Back in college, I was just not one of them. I seemed to lack the basic understanding that my peers just intuitively grasped. But like any late bloomer, I was eager to make up for lost time.

Hitch: In retrospect, I guess I may have come on a little strong. But the experience taught me a lot. And it's an education I feel obliged to pass on to my fellow men. Because with no guile and no game, there's no girl. My business is 100% referral and, thus far, untraceable. And if there's one thing I've learned...when you orchestrate, coordinate, and otherwise mess with fate...it's best to fly under the radar.

Hitch: Daydreams are for private time. When you're in the room, be in the room. Concentrate. Focus. Women respond when you respond to them.

Albert: You don't need us to tell you what to do. We're a board of advisers, not your kindergarten teachers. If you want to be taken seriously as an adult...then start taking yourself seriously as an adult...instead of asking for permission to invest your own money...from a boardroom full of your daddy's golf buddies.

Albert: I'd like to see anybody in this room handle the attention and publicity...that she's had to deal with her whole life, with half her class. We should be taking advice from you, Miss Cole. Not the other way around.

Sara: Listen, I understand the courage it takes to walk across a room...and try to generate a relationship out of thin air. So don't take the following personally.  Chip: You have fantastic eyes.  Sara: Thanks. Try to listen. This is no reflection on you. I'm just not interested. But thank you for the compliment of coming over.

Sara: So life's kind of hard all around.

Hitch: Who'd believe there's a man out there that can sit by a womem he doesn't know... and genuinely be interested in who she is, what she does, without his own agenda?

Hitch: They'd both probably go on to lead the lives they were headed toward. My guess is they'd do just fine. It's a pleasure to have met you, Sara Melas.

Pervert guy: You know, food has lost its taste. Colors, they seem dull. Things that used to matter, I don't know, they just no longer do. I think things aren't gonna snap back unless I bang her.

It's called The Kissing Post. The plaque explains how different cultures kiss after long absences.

Hitch: This is a signal. I'm fiddling with my keys. A woman that doesn't want a kiss...takes her keys out, puts them in the door, goes in the house. A woman that wants to kiss, she fiddles.

Hitch:  This is what most guys do. They rush in to take the kiss. But you're not most guys. See, the secret to a kiss is to go 90% of the way, and then hold.  Albert: For how long?  Hitch: As long as it takes for her to come the other 10%.

Louise: Well, you know, around these two, people usually can't wait to name-drop and dish their friends, and you're being all discreet.

Hitch: Younger, right? I could hear it in your voice. Sort of an innate protective thing.

Hitch: Kind of defines you, doesn't it? You know like, one moment you're gliding along...the next moment you're standing in the rain watching your life fall apart.

Hitch: Well, like I always tell my clients: Begin each day as if it were on purpose.

Boss: Louise made an interesting observation on the way home the other night. She said people who are guarded are afraid...that you can see right through them. That's why they hide behind layers of secrecy or humor.  Sara: He'll have to hide behind a lot more than that once this hits the fan.

Hitch: Never lie, steal, cheat, or drink. But if you must lie, lie in the arms of the one you love. If you must steal, steal away from bad company. If you must cheat, cheat death. And if you must drink, drink in the moments that take your breath away.

Hitch: Because that's what people do. They leap and hope to God they can fly. Because otherwise...we just drop like a rock...wondering the whole way down: "Why in the hell did I jump?" But here I am, Sara, falling. And there's only one person that makes me feel like I can fly. That's you.

我是彻底的"Hollywoodaholic" plus 绝对的"USaholic". 一般水平,我不和他们讨论电影,更别说剧集了,wu~hu~hu~hu~hu~hu~~

to Bryan: meh..no details at all, let me 4get it, please...

to Vince: me 2...hehe

to Chen chen: no~~no~~not a literature girl, and fashion girl? not even close!

                    How about a beautiful girl~~(haha, i'm such a superficial one, hehe, always~~but donot call me that to the teeth~)

人和人

就是TMD不一样

同样的话,不同的人说

大相径庭!!

有一类人

放荡不羁,率性冶艳

潇洒的被唾弃着,颓废的被欣赏着

随便一句"借过"

性感的一塌糊涂

有一类人

安份守己,言听计从

唾弃着颓废,却也为那夹杂的潇洒心生羡慕

于是,偶尔

也想换个身份,爆个冷门,来上几句带色儿的...

那真叫...

何苦呢?

天生是个"正人君子"

何必为追求那些小女孩喜欢的酷啦,帅啦,有性格啦

做作的压低人格, 媚声媚气的东施效颦

居然,还招摇到了"公开场合"

一定要让全世界知道

...其实...我很坏...

...其实...我刚刚认识到...男人不坏,女人不爱...

...其实...我没人爱...(这应该是潜台词的潜台词了吧)

我不是故意挖苦

只是觉得不值

为什么要做出对自己来说那么怪诞的行为呢

为什么要那么...作践自己呢

谁也不比谁强多少

太多东西都是表面文章

谁心里没有个狂野的,妖媚的,暴力的,变态的

亦或

单纯的,坦白的,理想的,灿烂的自我

你不表现不代表你没有

你表现了不代表你希望得到的注意,被大家注意到了

通常

人们会觉得

好吧

又是一个渴望被了解的孤独得人

然后

走开...

该干嘛,干嘛

"关你P事啊,我这会就爱这么说!"

装,你继续装.

您老继续 (说你,是为你好,你还掰吃起来了,真火大,我)

你吧

开始装的就是个四不象,自己搁那也正担心呢

现在

被揭穿了,恼羞成怒的辩白

拿真性情当台阶

也好找个地方落脚,让自己有个相信自己的理由不是

其实

何苦呢

不就是怕承认自己闷骚么

怕啥

当今天下,何人不闷骚,何处不闷骚

当然

接受现实,是要有过程的...

说你闷你就闷,你还别不服气

看看啥叫MS

骚这个字，一方面让人联想到水性杨花，一方面也是香港人对“show”的音译，我们叫做“秀”。闷骚的人是不会甘于无声的，他们要秀，但是闷着秀：不是明刀明枪，而是暗渡陈仓；不是牡丹芍药，而是暗香袭人……“什么我都有预感，然后睁不开两眼看命运光临，然后天空又再涌起密云”——林夕在给王菲的一首歌里这样写道，这首歌的名字叫做《暗涌》。

闷骚其实就是暗涌，骨子里的激情澎湃却偏偏不肯泛起表面上的浪。

要真浪起来，成了风骚也许就好办了。热闹翻腾的中国，眼下娱乐精神空前高涨，扬起风骚旗帜就不难轰轰烈烈，但是在这场巨变年代里集体用力过猛的哄闹中，价值判断迅速变化而拉宽的代沟里，总有人在枪林弹雨中豁不出去，总有人厌倦，总有人觉得，人还是让人研究一下之后再露峥嵘更有味道。

曾经读到一篇文章对闷骚这样解释：“风骚是卖弄，是挑逗，无关风情；闷骚是低回，是流转，关乎性情。风骚有点放弃，闷骚有点坚持。风骚是挑战，闷骚是退缩。风骚如浪涛，闷骚如暗涌。”(《议“闷骚”》，作者：林纲)。被很多研究市场的专家拿来作例子的Madonna，从当年的“金发野心”到现在的闷骚形象，麦姐那是完全研究透了广大歌迷审美的走向，成为娱乐行业里面最成功的品牌。Sharon Stone、Angelina Jolie再怎么折腾就是风骚，正在走红的Natalie Portman、Scarlett Johansson、Anne Hathaway就是闷骚；过去了的《Sex and the City》是风骚，《Grey‘s Anatomy》就是闷骚；坏人带点好是风骚，好人带点坏就是闷骚。

于是，闷骚似乎成为一种品位判断——彻底摊开容易，藏九分露一分似乎更需要智慧和心机。

打一巴掌

再给一甜枣

多好的处世哲学啊

说你

是一时气盛

本质上,你是一个好人,没啥了不得的缺点

偶尔做些让人觉得别扭的事,也是人之常情

敢说你,也不代表我就不会这样

通常,将心比心才会如此的中肯

偶们都是凡夫俗子,任凭谁谁也就是那么一本小小的口念帐

都有扭扭捏捏,装腔作势的时候

甚至,习惯了,也就妥协了

谁也没有资格对谁指指点点的

对不?

恩...

那,哥们,对不起...我又闷骚了,对上文中出现的种种指责和戏谑请阁下海涵...

  photographed & edited originally on 18/Feb

We spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get to angry too quickly, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too often, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too little and lie too often. We've learned how to make a living, but not a life; we've added years to life, not life to years.

We have taller buildings, but shorter tempers; wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less; we buy more, but enjoy it less.

We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet the new neighbor. We've conquered outer space, but not inner space. We've split the atom, but not our prejudice; we write more, but learn less; plan more, but accomplish less.

We've learned to rush, but not to wait; we have higher incomes, but lower morals. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies, but have less communication. We are long on quantity, but short on quality.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion; tall men and short character; steep profits and shallow relationships. More leisure and less fun; more kinds of food, but less nutrition; two incomes, but more divorce; fancier houses, but broken homes.

"nonsense...in deed as well as in name..."

16/Apr 07